Jewish Funeral Service Rituals - Legacy.com
Jun 25, 2019Here is a general overview of Jewish customs and traditions surrounding death, burial, and mourning to be aware of when attending a funeral in the Jewish faith. Jewish funeral customs can vary since there are many subsets of the religion. An orthodox funeral may have a few differences from a reform funeral. We are focusing on the major traditional customs that will help you feel comfortable attending the Jewish funeral of a friend or family member.Spiritual BeliefThe belief in Judaism is that all people are created in the image of God. This includes the deceased and the mourners as well.The Jewish religion focuses on doing good deeds during this life. In Judaism, there is no certainty as to what happens after death, and Jews are free to believe in an afterlife or not.At the Time of DeathBurial takes place within 24 hours or as soon as possible. Nowadays a funeral may take place a few days after passing so that family members across the country can travel to the funeral.Funeral PracticesJewish funerals can take place at various locations. Typically a funeral service begins at the synagogue and is completed at the cemetery. It's also common for a Jewish funeral service to be held at a funeral home before proceeding to the cemetery for burial. Some funerals are graveside only.Jewish tradition calls for the deceased to be buried in a simple wood casket. The casket should be biodegradable, without any nails, and embalming is not allowed. The reason for these traditions is so that decomposition can take place naturally.The casket will be closed; open caskets are not allowed. Immediate family can view the body before the service if they wish. The idea behind this practice is that, since the deceased can’t look at you, then you should not look at them.Your presence at the funeral is meaningful to the grieving family, and attending the funeral is the most important thing you can do to support them. You don’t need to say anything to the mourners and they will be in a private room until the funeral starts. Traditionally you don’t say anything to th...

